My sister in law, Nicole, is 6 weeks ahead of me pregnancy wise.
On Sunday evening, while she was asleep in bed, her water broke. They went to the hospital and the doctors were able to stop her labor. They kept her on the meds holding back labor until Tuesday afternoon, and in the meantime gave her a couple of injections to help baby Pierce develope faster and kept monitoring her amniotic fluid levels (they hadn't completely drained out when her water broke).
Since they took her off the meds to stop her labor, she's had some light contractions, and lost a little more fluid, but it seems to be stabilizing a wee bit.
Everyone's hoping that Pierce will be able to stay in for 2 or 3 more weeks, and get bigger and all, but if Niki goes back into labor, the doctors will let her have him now.
It's been so scarey. We got the call from my mother-in-law around midnight on Sunday night. hardly slept at all, and Jon didn't sleep, because we were worried and all. We went to see them Monday afternoon and Liam and I went again today.
I want to be there every second, cuz I want to help out in any way, but also be there in case something happens. But I know that I can't be there all the time, and if I was, it would probably be more hindrance to them than good. I feel so helpless. I know that they have a big network of family and friends and everybody wants to help, but I wish I could do more. I just don't know that that "more" could be.
I also have no idea what to say or do when I am there. Mostly I just let them talk. I have no experience in what they are going through, not that I would ever want that experience, but because I don't have the experience, I don't know what is appropriate and what is not. I try to go off their ques. I hope I am doing okay.
If you read this, please send up a prayer for Joe, Niki and baby Pierce. They are not in a fun place right now, as I am sure you can imagine. Thanks.